Pics for Jan 07

YAM CHA @ SPiCY HARTAMAS

in a mini.....

26th Jan-NiGHT @ LaySye's...

me - chi yng - pei shan

27th Jan 2007

This is wat we called "有义气"....

These are "义气仔女"...

The Princess

The GiRLssSss

The AnGeLssSss

DiNNER NiGHT

While I'm on my way......

During the Dinner.....




As promised, pics will be up soon… took me so long to upload these pics due to my dial-up connection… lots more nice pics but I think this is more than enough to let u guys know what had happened last month…. Jan is good month, Feb will be a better month… hopefully…. Hehehe……

All In January

phew..... is the last day of January today.. finally have time to sit down at home to blog...so many things happened in January, do not want to miss out any occasion in my blog for January..

Let's start with the 1st of January... the new year of 2007 started when i was shouting 10, 9, 8, 7, 6, 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 and laughing happily while enjoying the fireworks @ The Curve. It was the best fireworks i've ever seen.... is just right in front of my eyes, up in the sky, but so near to me, it was big, it was colourful with various patterns... each loud explosion followed by the "wah.." and "wow..." from the crouds including me.... people are dancing and laughing happily... so, the starting of year 2007 was just great, there must be more greater things throughout the year of 2007.. *smile*

then, the 5th of January, a SSB gathering @ Spicy Hartamas.... quite a number of us were there, 20? even Nazihah, Diyana and, er..... aiya.. i forgot her name... sorry sorry.... they were there as well... we were chatting and eating...... and chatting.. hahaha... wat else can u do at mamak? i would say it was a fun night as well especially seeing those who just got back from Australia and going back soon.... is always good to see old friends and to hear news from them....not forgetting seeing Mun Chiew's brand new CooperS.. me, Fang Shyuan and Wei Chuan can't wait to get into his mini and took a few pics with it.... i wan a mini also....

The following week i was busy preparing and buying stuffs for my new house in Rawang.. yes, i will be moving to Rawang.. er.... i already moved to Rawang actually.. hehehe... am happy to stay in my new house, didn't buy many new furnitures nor electrical appliances due to the budget i hav, but it is good enough, i have my room with everything i wan.. hehe.... we moved into the new house on the 14th, is was a tiring day keeping and putting the stuffs at the right place... suppose to shift on the 27th instead of 14th, but is a good news isn't it? now i can attend Lay Sye's wedding on the 27th.....

alright.. wat's next... let me check.. hahahahahahaha.. do u know how i remember all these important dates and things that happened? simple... is merely because i am smart and i have super good memory.... hahahahahhahaha...... is actually because of the pics i took on these special occasion... with my new phone, i tried to take photos wherever i go, i was scrolling down my photo folders to check wat happened during the month of January.... hehe....

ok.... the next one would be buffet at Lay Sye's house on the 26th of Jan... as predicted, LaySye and Steven will get married first among our friends.... wasn't suprise to hear the good news from them.. the girls already discussing wat to wear and to have wat hairdo on their big day a month before the wedding.... hahaha... these are girls... we are girls... hehehe..... 26th Jan, the girls went to LaySye's house while the guys gathered at Steven's place... nothing much happened that night, in fact, the buffet ended quite early, people started leaving around 9.30pm and the caterer left at 10pm.... we were there taking photos, chatting and again discussing the clothes, or gowns that we will wear on their wedding dinner.... went back straight to Sze Mun's house and had a good sleep there...

Now, 27th of January, the girls reached Lay Sye's house before 8 am..... everyone looks great, looks beautiful and nicely dressed, but no one looks better than the bride... she is just so pretty, so cute, so adorable.... she is just like a princess, a lovely princess... can't imagine that this fren of mine who i knew since we were in primary standard 3 is getting married today.. everyone says that she looks like a princess with the small little crown on her hair.... she is just beautiful.... Steven and his hengDai-hangDai sekalian reached at around 9am and they horned like no tomorrow, it makes everyone smile... all the hengDai looks smart and handsome, waiting to back-up the groom if anything happens.... Steven who claims that he can't sing sang a song for LaySye, is actually LaySye's idea, we were just following wat she wanted from her husband... the while process was noise and fun.... Then at the church, i can't believe that it was so touching when i saw LaySye walking into the church, with her father, along the red carpet with her bridesmaid and 2 cute little flower girl, Odelia and Ohanna...and i must say this again, she is so pretty..... it makes the girls want to get married as well... haha...

and then the wedding dinner, which was on yesterday night.... most of us brought our partner along, all walked in with nice dresses and pretty hairdo, everyone looks like a bride-to-be, hehe... it was a fun night introducing boyfrens and girlfrens to frens..and also the never ending photo sessions.. the drinking and all the "yam-sheng" and also a touching speech from Steven, he promised that he will give happiness to his wife, LaySye.. i will make sure my husband say that as well... hahahaha.... some of them gave sexy lingerie as a gift to the lovely couple and they want to make sure the bride will giv a suprise to the groom... hahaha...there and then ends the dinner yesterday.... is a memorable night....

Then, today, me sitting here blogging.. hehe..... feel hungry now... photos will be up soon k.... not forgetting, once again, happy birthday to my brother and wei chuan.....

HAPPY BIRTHDAY

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPT BIRTHDAY TO WEI CHUAN
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO KEAM HO
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU



31st of January, wish the both of you Happy Birthday and Happy Always.......


--lots of hugssss--

First Christmas Dinner-1st Dec 2006

Prepared by Joseph Chua & SiMone Chan (BellaRome's future boss)

Sze - Bee - Ting

This christmas tree is decorated by Chan Sze Mun... haha....

离家

离家出走已经有七个星期了。。。


有没有人知道我这七个星期是怎样过的？


到处流浪的滋味你试过了吗？ 每天夜一黑就要想 : “今天要到谁的家睡呢？” “今天要在那儿洗澡呢？” “今天要和谁吃饭呢？” “明天要带哪一件睡衣出门呢？” “朋友会不会介意我霸占了他二分一的床呢？”


每一夜入睡前就会想：“妈妈睡觉了吗？弟弟呢？” “家里的一切都还好吗？” “没有了我他们也一样过得很好吗？” “他们有没有也在想念我呢？” “他们会不会渐渐忘了我呢？”“有我没我都一样吗？”。。。。 会想念我的床，我的被，我的房间，我的书桌，我的衣橱。。。。。 也会想念家的感觉。。。。。


对家里的四个个人来说，他们失去了一个我； 对我而言，我失去了他们四个。 感觉上我和妈妈，弟弟和哥哥都不再那么亲近了。。。 感觉上，他们好像都不一样了，好像被疏远了。。。 可以想象弟弟和哥哥在家玩PS2， 好开心。。。 可以想象妈妈和他们聊天，也好开心。。。。 可是，这些画面里头都少了我。。。。 我在哪里？ 好心疼的，你懂吗? 你们会明白吗？会了解吗？


我必需忍受自己一个人作战，忍受每一晚睡觉前的孤独，忍受一个人时的害怕，忍受家人都不在我身边的孤单， 忍受他们都没有不要贡献的事实。。。。 忍住眼泪对我来说也是一项挑战，不敢哭，害怕一哭会哭得不可收拾，怕会崩溃，最多也只是静静的不出声，保持沉默才可以把眼里的眼泪吞回肚子里去。。。 这样的生活你以为我很想过吗？ 这样的日子你以为很好玩吗？很容易忍受吗？你们要试试看吗？


我随时都可以到回家去，那我就不会寂寞了啊！就算再苦，也有其他家人陪我一起苦啊！离家是因为他的所作所为已到了我无法忍受的地步了。。。 离家也是因为要让他知道不是每一给人都必须听他的，让他无理由的发脾气，我要让他看清楚，他这样的态度，就算他是爸爸，一样有人会反他。。。。 离家后的两个星期他果然发疯了，打电话骂我的朋友，到我做工的地方找我麻烦，结果，妈妈也离家出走了，但也只是维持了四天三夜，过后，我又回到了一个人的生活。。。。现在，他暂时不再那么放肆了，因为在这样下去，他就得自己一个人了， 不再放肆是因为他也怕孤单。。。。。


在这个时候我是不是该回家了呢？ 我不知道，至少我已经很努力的去做一些改变了，我真的努力了，努力的克制自己想回家的念头。。。。 现在回家会不会令所有的东西打会原形呢？ 那是不是代表我以后都不要回家呢？


我真的尽力了。。。 我的心在痛时你们知道吗？ 我一个人哭时你们懂吗？我的用心你们明白吗？ 我也想赶快解决掉它，但只有我一个人在努力是，请给我一点时间可以吗？给我一些鼓励可以吗？离家七个星期不是什么大事，可是对我来说，这七个星期里发生了多少事情你们懂吗？我要面对多少挣扎你们知道吗？ 没有鼓励的话也算了，不要再过来告诉我：“七个星期so what? 就算是七天，七十天，或是七个月都是一样的啦！你还不是一样会回去的。 想这样多做什么，不用离家出走了啦，现在就回家吧！”

GiRLs iN LAnGkAWi

-LANGKAWI LAGOON RESORT-

-THE ROOM-

-me and watson-

Mei Guan-Mint-Bee

Sanli-Bee-Joyee-Mei Guan

Dinner @ Unkaizan restaurant

DOME

went Australian High Commission with ah yee and ah jun to apply ah jun's Visa.. Aus High Comm allows Jun to stay in Australia for a period of 3 months... =) is a good news for them...They are able to celebrate Christmas and Chinese New Year with their family this time.. i wanna be there too... but Audrey is coming back during December, almost everybody is back end of the year, so why should i be there? hmm.... then i shall go there some other time rite.... =)
after the Visa thingy, me, ah yee and ah jun went KLCC for lunch at DOME... is my first time there and the food is delicious... always thought that DOME is just an ordinary coffee shop but it does have good food as well...

ah jun & me... (forgot to mention, Jun is my cousin..)

@ DOME

-ah yee & ah jun-

Jun & me again...

Chocolate Caramel Crunch...yummy yummy...

ah yee had Catch of The Day

Jun had Fish & Chips

I had Creamy Seafood Spaghetti

hehe... tis is another pic i took with Sze Mun when we were having lunch at Segambut after swiiimmiiiing~~~

KAORI YAMAMOTO AUTO PARTS SDN BHD

Done by : Lim Fang Shyuan

21/10/06 - 25/10/06

suppose to post tis up long time ago.. delayed due to my laziness and also because i was too tired after coming home everyday...

ok.. let's start from 21/10/06 to 23/10/06...reached Langkawi around 10am in the morning.. rent a Wira which costs RM 80 per day, which i considered it cheap especially during public holidays. Went straight to our 5 stars hotel-Langkawi Lagoon Hotel, was looking foward to see our hotel and it didn't disappoint us at all..

We were all excited and waiting for more funs to come, and i suggested to go Seven Well Waterfall. We left all our considered-expensive-handphones in the safety box in our hotel, i brought my sling bag along, and Fong brought her bag as well..The gals put their IC and liciense in Fong's bag with some money as well... We have to climbed around 550 stairs up to the waterfall, which is very very tiring.. we were having lots of fun there, Mint fell down twice when she was trying to walk on the slippery rocks. Then this Mei Guan went up the rocks to take the camera from Fong's bag and found that the bag is GONE!! yes, is G.O.N.E...

Let me tell you wat we put in tat bag.. RM 1800 cash, a Canon Camera, a pendrive, a bottle, four shirts, 4 person's IC and liciense, ATM cards, credit cards, expensive purse, Fong's love letters and also our Wira's car key... Only Fong's bag is stolen, my sling bag lies peacefully on the rocks, must be because i only put 10 bucks in my bag.. lol...

It was raining when we were waiting for our spare key to come.... haihh... spent 2 hours in the police station to make 4 reports, 2 hours for 4 reports!! all because of its DOT-DOT-DOT-DOT-DOT matrix printer...and we were charged RM 10 for the lost key, which i considered it reasonable.

i tell u lor, Langkawi is a black listed place from now on, the last time i went there with Audrey and gang, we lost cash RM 1000 and 2 expensive handphones.. That was worse, the theive/s went into our chalet when we were all asleep... Damn stoned lor, no one noticed anything until the next morning Fang Shyuan shouted, "ey.. where is my handphone la.. i left it on the TV before i sleep.." Then Hing Chun said his handphone is lost too.. then King Soong shouted, "Where is the 500 that i took out from ATM yesterday???!!" Then all 9 of us sat there, kept quiet and u should look at our faces that time...is so funny.... but we did have a great time there.. HOWEVER, Langkawi is now black listed...

The next day, we cancelled our island-hopping and went around the town.. bought liquor and cigarette and some chocolates of course... Went to a restaurant near the jetty and our lunch was Free-Of-Charge... hahahaha..... one of the waiter paid for us this time...

That night, we got ourselves drunk by playing some silly games.. Fong thrown up first and it was really really disgusting, i have a video for that and i shall earn a fortune for that right Poon Lai Fong?? hahahaha.... Then everyone started to vomit as well.... ya.. i know is disgusting but it was fun at the same time... it is unforgetable for everyone of us.. =)

alrite.. i think that's all for Langkawi.. on the 24th of October, went Genting Highland with a bunch of frens... It was blaaa-dy cold, raining.... it was my first time trying the Flying Coaster, it is a new game in Theme Park, you will have to stand on something that will turn and you will lie 180 degree facing the floor and the roller coaster starts to fly... is interesting, you should try it.. oh ya... one ride is charged at RM 10.

hmmm.. where did i go on the 25th? oh.. went to my fren to watch tv and went out for food.. can't remember exactly wat i did on tat day...

however.... it was a fun, erm... in fact, a very fun and exciting holiday...

Happy Holiday..

hey hey.. is going to be a 5 days holiday starts from tomorrow..

and me and my clinic colleagues, all six of us will be going Langkawi tonite...

a 3 days 2 nights trip... yupe... is sponsored by my beloved doctor...5 stars hotel.. i forgot the name, tell you when i come back k..

i remembered the last time i went Langkawi was with AUdrey, Sze Mun, Joseph, Wei Ken, hing Chun, Fang Shyuan, King Soong, Pek Yan... did i miss out anyone? That was a few years ago.. and i told myself tat i will not take bus to Langkawi anymore becoz 7-8 hours sitting in the bus is damn suffering lor!! and the bus driver only let us out to the toilet ONCE! i dare not drink water no matter how thirsty i was.. and i can't really fall asleep when i was in the bus.. it was freezing cold and the air-cond blew directly to my nose, and sleeping in the bus isn't comfortable at all...

BUT, haihh.... we still need to take bus tis time.. wish me luck then... actually we plan to take Piriton (Flu tablet) if we can't sleep nicely in the bus... wahahaha...

Happy Holiday!

my uncle

phew....... ....... ......

finally hav some time to sit down and blog abt wat happened in the past few weeks.

my uncle (my mom's brother) was lost on the 13th August 2006... He went out in the evening and never come home again. My uncle is a diabetic patient, which means that he has to come home to take insulin injection everyday, twice a day and u should know how important is insulin to diabetic patients. My grandparents found his IC and liciense left on the table in his room, which makes them feel more n more worried.

Reported his lost to the police the next day, and my grandparent went to almost every hospitals and police stations to search for him. But nothing is found. So all they can do is sit at home and wait and look at the papers everyday. My grandma even went to the temple to ask "God" whether he/she knows where is her son.

Five days past...On the 18th August 2006-Monday, a policeman came to my grandparents house and told them tat they found my uncle's car. A cleaner walked pass his car which parked at Hospital Besar Kuala Lumpur and smelled some odour coming out from tat car. His body was found in his car boot.

Quickly cancelled my tuition tat night and rushed to my grandparent's house with my family members. I can feel the sadness when i stopped my car in front of the house. Before stepping into the house, i can hear my grandma crying, so hard, never hear her cry tis sad before, never see her cry tis much before. haihh..... The toughest person-my grandfather also cried. Everybody was crying tat night. My uncle was murdered, it makes our hearts more painful. The pain he had to suffer before he die must be unbearable.

Sent his body back from the hospital the next day. It was a tiring day...

My relatives told me to go back to popo's house more often because they might feel much lonely now without his son at home. I did that and feel sad as well everytime i see them. Gong Gong and Po Po were trying to hide their sadness when they see us coming to his house. Heard from 'kakak' that my grandma went into the bathroom and cry every day. haihh.... my grandpa has heart disease and he stopped smoking a few months ago.. but these days, i saw him smoking everytime i see him.

They love my uncle so much so much although he is not an obedient son. He took drugs, shouted at everyone, bully everyone and so on, but he is still my uncle, and he is still their son. 'Kakak' said that she saw him 'coming home' many times. She heard him calling her but she wasn't afraid at all.

According to Chinese tradition, a dead person's spirit will come back home on the 7th day. And that night, after putting all the fruits, cakes and rice on the table, everyone went to their bedroom and kakak went to close the front door. Then she shouted, she said my uncle was just outside the house, coming in with many many 'people'. She wanted to stay in the living room so that she can asked him wat happened tat night and who murdered him, but my grandpa refuse to let her do so. Everyone must be in the bedroom, otherwise, the spirit cannot come in. Kakak said my uncle looked sad, might be because he realised that he is now dead. There was a 'thing' with a very very long tongue standing beside him and on the other side was another 'thing' wearing a very very tall hat. It sounds so real especially when kakak told us, she is a Malay, she wouldn't know or learn before that a dead person's spirit will come back with all these 'things'. I was asking my self as well "is it real?"... i really don't know. My grandpa said ,"if u believe it to be real then is real; if not, then nothing is real."

haihh.. watever it is, things ad happened and kakak never see 'him' at home again. He was a christian and i hope that he is now resting in peace in heaven. Uncle, we all love u...

the underlying truth..

I guess there isn’t anything fair in this world. Whether u like it anot, man and woman doesn’t stand on the same ground, there are still things that only men are allowed to do without being cursed till death. Men can look for other pretty young chicks when they are married and find no fault in themselves at all after their wives discovered all the bullshit they did outside. And what if a woman do the same thing? Can she hide her fault by saying she is bored with the relationship like wat most men did? And she needs some sparks in her life again, can she? She will be a dirty slut around her husband’s friends, his relatives, and even her own family members, and she is most likely to be dumped after tat. But tat doesn’t happen when things come to a guy isn’t it?

I always thought this way: The world is a piece of white paper, sometimes, with some black dots which symbolizes bad people… however, not until recently, I found that the world is actually a piece of black paper, and sometimes, fill with some white spots on it. Most people I know and I tot that they are good fellas aren’t as good as I thought. They cheated on their girlfriends but at the same time acting like a gentleman in front of their friends. Trust me, they are real good in protecting their image. Is me being naïve all this while, the world isn’t so white after all…

两种人。。。。

这世界上有两种人。。

第一种人， 不会轻易地答应你的要求，因为他知道自己并不会将它实现。。 不想给了你希望，然后才被你骂得狗血淋头。。。这种人连尝试都懒。。。

第二种人，若答应了你的事，他会至少尝试去实现。。。

很多时候，女孩要你做一件事时，她并不一定要你真的去完成它，只要你有尝试过，有用心的想去做过，她就已经很满足了。。。

比如说，女孩希望每一晚睡前要听到童话故事，第一种人会告诉她别发梦了，明天还有很多东西要做呢！ 第二种人也许明天也有很多东西要做，可是，他至少会尝试去告诉她一些他曾经听过的童话故事，虽然他说的故事不是很完整，也不流利，可是却装满了诚意。

其实，当女孩说要听童话故事时，她也很明白别人也有很忙的时候，她并不奢望真的可以听到童话故事的。。。 结果，当第一种人连尝试的心也没有时，第二种人的出现是很惊喜，也很容易取代第一种人的。。。

两者之间。。。

拥有一个有钱的男朋友，和一个很疼你的男朋友，两者之间，你会选那一个呢？

换个角度看吧！ 若这两个男生，是你朋友的男朋友，你会比较羡慕那一个朋友呢？ 会羡慕那个天天有钱花，名牌满身的朋友？ 还是那个每天都洋溢着幸福笑容的朋友呢？

当然，如果有一个又有钱，又疼自己的男朋友的话，那是再好不过的事了！可是这种事往往不会发生在我们这些平民身上，哈哈。。

若自己的男朋友很有钱，那么，花钱时的那种满足感是很美妙的。 不必再去理会某个东西的价钱，不必去预算这个月的零钱还够不够撑到下个月，只要是喜欢的，买！ 同时，也可以享受贵妇般的生活，空闲时约三五知己，到咖啡店去享用下午茶，然后走走街，肚子饿了，也可以毫无牵挂的走进任何一间餐厅，然后刷卡。每一天都是美好的一天。我也很想过这些不用为钱而烦恼的生活。。

当自己的男朋友很疼惜自己时，虽然他没钱，可是你却会感觉到有钱人感觉不到的幸福，甜蜜。。。 虽然口袋空空的，可是你的心是满满的，比起有钱， 你更富有。。。。

just uploading some pics...

Pangkor Trip Last December..

Bee & Lee Mei & Fong...



Ice-cream plus leng lui... On our way to the beach

<-----Kesan-kesan Fong fell from the bicycle..

Me..........


Lunch with Sze Mun, Audrey and Fang Shyuan...

trying to put sze in the pic as well.... =)

me and audrey me and audrey me and audrey me and audrey me and audrey....lol

烂泥扶不上壁

古人说的话果然没错，一堆烂泥，不管你怎样把它粘上墙壁，最终那堆烂泥还是会因为自个儿的关系，掉回下来的 。 这也在形容一个人，要是那个人有着烂泥的特征， 那么他是不可能可以爬上去的。有时，会觉得这话很讽刺，也很偏激。 我觉得，命是自己掌握的，只要肯努力，就算你出生于一个不是很好的家庭，就算你本来的性格不好，只要肯争气，勇敢地去面对，总会有出头的一天。 可是，今天，我体会到这句话的意思了。

一个人，要是不改自己的坏脾气，不检讨，不规划自己的人生，却整天把过错推到别人的身上，埋怨别人，自己几乎都不必附上一丁点儿的责任， 这样的一个人，使全世界的人愤怒，是全世界的公敌。


一个只会在家无所事事，不负责任的男人，
一个只会成天埋怨别人的男人，
一个对自己所做的一切都觉得是对的男人，
一个自己认为自己永远是对的男人，
一个自大狂妄的男人，
一个只会用脾气做事的男人，
一个只会用脏话做事的男人，
一个只会诸咒自己家人的男人，
一个只会骗家人钱的男人，
一个永远不会检讨的男人，
一个只会欺负家人的男人，
一个以为自己很了不起的男人，
一个自以为是的男人，
一个一无是处的男人，
一个只会用拳头解决事情的男人，
一个人人看了都想避开的男人，
一个不得到任何人尊重的男人，
一个不能做大事的男人，
一个不要赚钱养家的男人，
一个出了事都不会有人可怜的男人，
一个跌倒了却不肯面对现实的男人，
一个不能接受自己已经失败的男人，
一个一直活在过去的男人，
一个经不起考验的男人，
一个烂赌的男人，
一个不会反省的男人，
一个用暴力对付家人的男人，
一个逼自己家人去骗别人钱的男人，
一个把钱撕开两边的男人，
一个会把神像打碎的男人，
一个家人都害怕，讨厌的男人，

这样的一个男人，后果不会好到哪里去吧；这样的一个男人，多么地渴望从来。。。。。。 从来都没有出现过在我的生命里。。。。。。。。。。。。。。

-10th August-

a date to be remembered....