jUst aNotheR teSt

姓　　名： 林美炎
出生日期： 西元1984年11月13日
靈　　數： 13

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你是個比較嚴肅的人，具有權威性，會特別對某方面施行強力的掌控，而且你一旦決定的事，就會很有決心一直進行下去，在你的信念中，幸運之神不可能悄悄來臨，因此凡事都要有強烈的信心，和積極的運作，並且在人生道路中做出正確的抉擇，才會有成功的機會。
　　你對於那些神秘的力量特別有感應，或者神秘、宗教、或與往生世界有關的行業，特別有緣。因此會相信宿命論，但也會努力積極向宿命挑戰。
　　你的生命目標比較世俗一點，在現實的世界裡找到一生的伴侶，然後成立一個家庭，接著為了養家而有經營事業的行動，經濟上很獨立，是很能幹的一個人。情緒比較平和與穩定，很能考慮到他人的立場，尤其是面對陌生群眾的時候，會表現出和諧的耐性，對所有人都一視同仁，讓人感覺受到尊重，沒有壓力。
　　喜歡參與社交場合，會主動熱場，取悅他人，扮演團體中的協調角色，也是眾人的開心果，建議你選擇協調性高、或社交方面的工作，可以帶來更多人生的樂趣喔！
　　你的性格特徵是具有陽性及陰性的二種層面，陽性是對外人會顯示個性很強的一面，所以很多事會因為個性太強而形成阻礙。陰柔的一面是很會照顧人，對人富有同情心，尤其會很照顧自己人，也很重視伴侶。
　　在愛情上，由於你凡事都喜歡講道理，對感情的表達也像好朋友一樣，比較缺乏深情的羅曼蒂克，但是對婚姻有執著的一面，會很想要結婚，然後建立一個家庭，因為你認為婚姻是人生中很重要的事情，如果婚姻順利，家庭美滿，人生就會過的不錯。提醒你如果太重視人與人的相處，以及與家人的相處，很容易忽略掉其它更重要的事物喔！
　　你的優點是富有母性的特質，偏向於保護防衛、照顧和親切的情感，雖然有時話不多，但卻可以讓人感受到真心的溫暖與親情，也能夠發揮出心靈上的關心與照顧，保護別人的心態極強，也很有家庭觀念。你的缺點是容易為了家庭，為了伴侶，會過度強調自己的權威，加上想像力豐富，有時會變得比較情緒化，不講理。
　　你的天賦潛能是擁有賺錢的本領，多半會從事服務業，比如說賣商品、開店都會做得不錯喔！

嫌弃

有没有想过有一天也许你也会嫌弃某一些人。 为什么这么说呢？ 以前，很久以前，大概是中学时期吧，我都会认为喜欢一个人其实很简单，没有太多的要求，喜欢就是喜欢，就那么简单而已。 不会去在乎他的家庭背景，不会在乎他学历有没有比自己高，不会在乎他有没有和自己相同的文化，不会去想以后他可以给自己怎么样的生活。 一切一切都不是那么的重要，最重要的是天天可以看得到对方，当时的每一刻都是最美好，最没有瑕疵的。

也许是因为人长大了，也渐渐对身边的事与物开始有所要求。 不再认为喜欢就是喜欢那么简单，喜欢还包括他是否可以给我过安定的生活，包括他是否和我有共同的目标，包括他和我能不能沟通， 也包括在他看我顺眼之余，我也看他顺眼吗？“要求”说穿了只是因为人变得更现实了一点， 少了以往的梦与幻。

又或许是因为这些年来所面对的种种事情， 种种让人透不过气的压力，让我变得像神经病一样，开心时开心，不开心时要看起来更开心。 早几年前更对自己许下在任何事情发生时都不能轻易掉眼泪的承诺，之后不管发生了什么事， 都会把眼泪吞回去，极少掉眼泪了。 就算被赶出家门，最多只是保持沉默，泪是不被允许流出来的。 哭的时候会很难受，心里面会很疼很痛，不想再感觉到那种痛了。 这几年的压力，让我改变了很多想法，择偶条件也不再一样了。 钱对我来说很重要，中学过后到现在我都是每一天都在工作，一星期七天，有时甚至一天打几份工。 这统统都只为了钱。没有钱的日子真的很难过，很难过，唉。。。 。。。 。。。 累了，真的累了，所以也想找个依靠算了。 是不是很现实呢？ 哈，看了这篇东西的男孩都会害怕吧？

干嘛在说这些啊？ 其实本来想说，最近约我的男孩，我都会先看他们的家庭背景，然后才考虑考虑是否要继续约会。 这种想法很不对是吗？我也知道啊! 可是潜意识里，一看到那些男孩时就会先留意他们的后盾有多厚，真得快疯了。 有一个男孩，家里蛮富有的，可是样貌和背景都不是我喜欢的，结果还是做回朋友好了。 好害怕自己为什么会有这种“贪慕虚荣”的想法， 可是同时也领悟到了一件事， 当自己嫌弃别人时，有没有想看自己是否有这个条件， 而别人也是不是一样会嫌弃你呢？

wHicH of SAntA's reiNdEeR ArE YOu?

You Are Dancer

Carefree and fun, you always find reasons to do a happy dance. Why You're Naughty: That dark stint you had as Santa's private dancer. Why You're Nice: You're friendly. Very friendly.

Which of Santa's Reindeer Are You?

hOw siNFuL aRe yOu?

Your Deadly Sins

Envy: 100%

Greed: 60%

Pride: 60%

Gluttony: 40%

Sloth: 40%

Wrath: 20%

Lust: 0%

Chance You'll Go to Hell: 46%

You will die in a duel.

How Sinful Are You?

wHaT iS YoUR seDUcTiOn sTyLe?

Your Seduction Style: The Natural

You don't really try to seduce people... it just seems to happen. Fun loving and free spirited, you bring out the inner child in people. You are spontaneous, sincere, and unpretentious - a hard combo to find! People drop their guard around you, and find themselves falling fast.

What Is Your Seduction Style?

yOuR LoVe LiFE SeCReTs aRE...

Your Love Life Secrets Are

Looking back on your life, you will have a few true loves. You've been deeply wounded in the past, and you're still recovering from that hurt. It's important to you that your lover is very attractive. You like to have someone to show off. In fights, you love to debate and defend yourself. You logic prevails - or at least you'd like to think so. Break-ups can be painful for you, but you never show it. You hold your head high.

Your Love Life Secrets, Revealed

hahahaha..... damn true damn true... but i didn't want a boyfriend to show off, erm... some mistakes there? hehe..

COuLD YoU PaSs 8tH gRAdE MaTH?

You Passed 8th Grade Math

Congratulations, you got 10/10 correct!

Could You Pass 8th Grade Math?

hurray... 10/10, not bad huh....

hOW wEiRD ARe YOu?

You Are 40% Weird

Normal enough to know that you're weird... But too damn weird to do anything about it!

How Weird Are You?

male hormone > female hormone

hmmm.... went yam cha at Station One with 6 guys.. Wei Ken, Hing Chun, Kenneth, Yong Fatt, Kim Ann and Steven. why am I hanging out with guys more often than gals nowadays, then we come to one conclusion, is becoz my JANTAN-hormone is more than my BETINA-hormone.... hahahaha..... wat the hack?

saw one waitress, very pretty, sweet smiles, good manners, and the most important thing is she caught the guys' eyes. So Yong Fatt bring up his guts and told her that she is pretty, then asked for her name --------> Vivian...

After a while, another waitress brought us a drink, we were wondering becoz non of us ordered anything extra and i told her we didn't order that and she said, "这个有人请你喝的." Then she put down the drink and a note. ***************STONED************** hahaha.... we were silent for a few seconds and everyone started laughing and wi-wah-ing after tat. This Hing Chun even said, "没有想到我们beeyam那么有魅力。哈哈...." We were guessing who belanja me tat drink, and I think i know who is tat coz i saw a guy (next table) kept looking at our direction, mmm.... we were guessing that this guy may be the restaurant boss cause we saw him talking n telling the staffs to do things. This Wei Ken too much, telling me to sms back to tat guy so that they will all get a free drinks also.... hahahahaha....

When we asked for bill, this Hing Chun actually checked the bill and see whether that drink is included in our bill anot, hahahahah..... he said that might be their "生意手法" , 表面上请你喝, 其实假假算进去了的. hahahahaha....... we were all laughing n the waiter told us that it is not included in the bill and gave me another note. haha...... we were all reading the note while this Yong Fatt asked the waiter a question like this, "ey, Vivian got boyfriend ar??" hahahaahhahahahahahaha... all this people ar, 趁火打劫..........

hang out with the guysss

haha.... only three guys in fact, but "three" is plural, therefore, is "guysss"... wah... damn lame ler... 1st of May, Labour Day, damn free, got nothing to do, was thinking where to go and who should i go out with, was thinking abt the jam outside the road n in the shoppoing's parking, wow, a nightmare.... Recalled last year Labour Day, me n Fang Shyuan suppose to go One Utama for movies, we were stucked in the parking for half n hour n decided to leave after tat. I got down n pay the ticket n went up to the car and got stucked for another half an hour before we got to the exit... an hour gone.....

Then, we decided to go Mid Valley, hoping tat there won't be tat jam over there since the whole world was in One Utama ad. HOWEVER, before i can see the building of MidValley we got stucked in the jam again and..... the best part is we can never do a U-turn there, we must follow the carS carsS carsSs in front until....haihh...... forgot where ad, but we spent another 2 hours in the car before we reached home... 1 + 2 = 3 hours in the car lor!!

So, tot this year Labour Day gonna be a hectic out there again. Me, Fang Shyuan, Wei Ken and Alex went One Utama for movie, to our suprise, not very jam and we found a parking in 15 minutes time. Tot there would be a long queue at the cinema counter, but to our suprise again, only a few people lining up at each counter. We bought 4 tickets for a Japanese movie called "Reincarnation". I always tell my beloved frens not to bring me for any scary movie otherwise they will regret in the cinema... haha.. and the victim for the day is -------> Mr. Alex Chai.... was holding his left arm with my left hand and right hand covering my eyes, I did this everytime when we go for horror movies... Before the show, we went 龙的传人 for 小笼包, taste so good, photos wil be up soon.. hehe....

Then, after the show we went Honey BeE, yes, is HONEY BEE again!! haha. just love to go there... The names for the drinks there are very cute, erm.... childish maybe.... let me give u one example - Prince of Frog 青蛙王子， sounds very fairy tales right... haha.. and becoz of these funny funny names we got into some laughter, conversation as below:

Waiter : 请问你们要喝什么？

mE : 给我一个 er.. mango .........(the name of da drinks is actually MangoTwinkleLittleStar,

but knowing tat my frens will laugh at me, i just say Mango...)

Waiter : 什么？Mango 什么？

mE : er.... (how come this waitress so funny one, only one drinks tat has mango also duno

meh...) MangoTwinkleLittleStar...... (omg, sounds so childish ler....)

( Fang Shyuan and me were tahan-ing not to laugh)

Suddenly this Alex said : 给我 "阳光海滩".................................

HaAhAHhAhahHAhAhahaHAHahhAhahahah.... me, wei ken n fang shyuan all burst out laughing..... hahahahahahahaha.... damn funny .....then we play cards n UNO and went home at around 11 i think..... hmmm.... a fun day i would say... hehe...

RUN AWAY FROM HOME

This is the x time i am away from home because of my father, i really hate to admit that he is my father. He is not doing his duty or carrying his responsibility at all.. and when is this going to stop? Does this has a full stop? or is a continuous non stop thingy? 5 years already and things are still the same, or getting worse, how is it going to be at the end of the day? I dare not imagine.... I dare not think of myself, my future, my marriage, my everything... it seems too far away from me, everything is just so far, i can't even see when i reach out my hands.... “乌云背后有彩虹”， “雨过会天晴”, are these true? when will this day come?? few more weeks? months or years?

Lunch

Suppose to post this up last week, but didn't have time to do so... Last week on duno which day, me, audrey and fang shyuan looked for sze mun for lunch during her one hour lunch time. We went to some chinese restaurant to have our lunch, and these are the photos we took when we were caught in jam....

fOrEveR bEst FrIeNDs

IRIS

wonder why i put the title "IRIS"? I am not sure as well, but Iris seems to be the one kept talking the whole dinner session... lol...

Yesterday after my check up in UH for my breast, me, audrey, sze mun, iris, adele, adele's darling and kok keat went for dinner.. We had our dinner at Wong KOk Char Chan Teng in ss2.

About the lump in my breast, Prof Yip (the doctor) said THEY ARE harmless! ya... why i say THEY ARE instead of IT IS? Let me tell you wat happened.. when a nurse called my name, i felt nervous, left my handbag with audrey n went into the room. The nurse told me to take off my shirt and lie down on the bed. Then, a Malay lady came in, a doctor i think, looked at my records and put some transparent gel on my left breast and there the ultrasound goes.. erm.... something like a roller, rolled on my breast, all i can see from the screen is ........ "darknesssssssss".. i kept tahan-ning not to laugh coz i feel geli when the thing rolled on my breast.. haha... when she said, "there, the lump, not too big, not dangerous, no worries...", relief... then she checked on my right breast as well, thought my right breast is fine, but she found a lump there as well, and is the same as the one in the left, harmless..... thank god!! haha...

ok.. back to Wong Kok, we reached there around 8pm, ordered our dinner and wait for the ladies to arrive. Audrey ordered something called "Doreamon", we waited so long looking at "Doreamon", wanted to take pic of it b4 eating. Iris was complaining that we didn't include her when taking pics, aiya.. she was sitting opposite ma...haha..Then we started chatting and fooling around... This Iris is full of jokes lor, let me write down one joke that she told yesterday:

有一天，kuar teow 和 mee hoon 吵架， kuar teow 就对 mee hoon 说：“不要再给我看到你，一定把你打一顿在丢进海里。” mee hoon 听了十分害怕，连续几天躲在家里不敢出门。 有一天，mee hoon 真得很闷也很饿，可是还是不敢出去，想了想，他只好叫他的堂弟，maggie mee 帮他出去买点东西吃，maggie mee 想了想就答应了，反正他和 kuar teow 又没有什么过节。

结果，maggie mee 出去之后，遇到了 kuar teow 。 哪知，kuar teow 对 mee hoon 说：“不要以为你电了头发，我就不认识你！” 说完，就把 maggie mee 打一顿再丢进海里。

hahahahahaha..... funny?? the best part is not the joke itself, is Iris's expressions, so cute n farny... and then, we had a lot of other jokes as well, we laughed our heads off and put back and laughed again... LOL.... She even asked us a question like this, "讲出屁股洞的三个功能。" hahaha..... do you know the answers? Do make your guess k, i'll let you know whether u hit the ball anot..

haihh.. the whole dinner session is just so crazy, we took some pictures as well, all in Iris's camera.. IRIS!! must send to all of us k, our email address is in ur PDA ardy. [kakakaka... Iris must send d this time]


audrey n me wif "Doreamon"


chan sze & lim bee


sze mun, me , audrey


haha... the most talkative gals


and the camera man is ----> adele's boyfriend!

haha... Iris!! just found these pics in ur blog ler.. oh ya... we were also placing bets on who or which couples will get married first. As usual, number one goes to SOO LAY SYE & StEVEN LEE. If 'accidents' are avoided properly, these two is expected to get married first. Hey, what abt 1st and 2nd runner-up?

hOW sELfiSh aRe yOu?

You Are 30% Selfish

In general, you are a very giving person who treats others very well. But at times, you insist on getting your way - when it matters most to you.

How Selfish Are You?

haha..... chiyng, found this test in ur blog.. hmmm....30 % selfish, is this enough? some people say "对别人越好，就是对自己越残忍", do u agree? At times, i do agree with tat... used to think that i can treat everyone well, but not exactly the way now...

Last time, i used to go pasar malam with my fren every Sunday, just to buy some junk food and just like to get into the crowd and have sweat.. Then, i saw one beggar, a woman, hugging a small child sitting there and begging for money, so pityful and i gave her one buck.. few steps away, i saw an old man lying on the ground with wounds everywhere, and i gave him one buck also. Walk walk walk, then i saw this man standing with his tongkat, he lost one of this leg, then i was thinking, "he is more pityful than the previous two.." so i gave him one buck as well.. Not a long distance away, another old man sitting on a chair, he can hardly move, it must be his family who brought him there to beg for money, then i was thinking, "if i dun give him money, his family might not treat him well" and so i gave another buck out of my pocket.

There was one time where i took 4 or 5 milk powder sample from my clinic (to my dear Dr. Chin, sorry tat i didn't ask for ur permission) and gave to that woman with a child, with a hope that these samples will really get into the stomach of tat little child, coz i heard tat some beggars purposely bring a child to beg with them to gain more sympathy.

So, after the pasar malam session, i left with not much money, and i missed my favourite fried chicken wings as well, haha..... My fren was scolding me, and we didn't go pasar malam to do this charity work for some time. Not until yesterday, i went pasar malam again, and gave out one buck to an old lady, just wan them to feel that the world isn't that cruel and cold after all....

wHat siGN sHLd u bE?

You Should Be A Cancer

What's good about you: you're incredibly kind, caring, and generous What's bad about you: you can be too moody and impossible to understand In love: you enjoy wining and dining the object of your affection In friendship, you're: likely to depend on other friends for emotional support Your ideal job: historian, marine biologist, or religious figure Your sense of fashion: you dress to match your mood You like to pig out on: classic home cooked meals, like mac and cheese

What Sign Should You Be?

woo-hoo... a cancer instead of a scorpion?

资格

如果一个人要找你，会用尽一切方法与你联络。
如果一个人要避你，也会用尽一切方法和借口不找你。
这道理我们都很清楚吧！
不需讲得太明白，你也应该会了解的。
不需表现出来，你也应该感觉得到的。
会伤心吧？ 无奈吗？
没有选择的我们有资格吗？

tHe 5 LoVE LaNguAgEs

The Five Love Languages

My primary love language is probably
Quality Time
with a secondary love language being
Acts of Service.

Complete set of results

Quality Time:		9
Acts of Service:		8
Physical Touch:		6
Words of Affirmation:		5
Receiving Gifts:		2

Information

Unhappiness in relationships, according to Dr. Gary Chapman, is often due to the fact that we speak different love languages. Sometimes we don't understand our partner's requirements, or even our own. We all have a "love tank" that needs to be filled in order for us to express love to others, but there are different means by which our tank can be filled, and there are different ways that we can express love to others.

Take the quiz


hmmm.... ya, quality time is important for me.. cook together, wash plate together, watch Simpson together, all these simple simple things are just so sweet..

不寻常

不寻常，一点都不寻常。

在我的生命里，不寻常的事实在是太多太多了。 不是一点点的不寻常，我所遇到或需要去面对的事情都是几乎都只出现在电影里头。 万分的刺激和紧张， 有一些甚至还没被搬上银幕呢！

人的耐力总有个限度，也许最近发生比较多事情，发生的频率也比较频繁， 让我越来越接近崩溃的边缘。可是，我是一个不容易倒下的女孩，因为我根本不能到，我倒的话，会害了很多人的。

aRE u sTiLL tHiNKinG abt uR eX

did another test, haha... hit by insomnia as well, a disease that widely spread among my frens..

check it out at:
http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test104.aspx

result:
Your ex clearly broke your heart and you haven't yet moved on. Remember that time heals all sorrows, so look positively towards the future. Don't be blinded to the love that might be surrounding you right now.

wow....... speechless.....

kNow uRseLF beTtEr

http://www.quizbox.com/personality/test82.aspx

can't sleep, took another personality test.... is called "Know Urself Better"..

Your view on yourself:

You are down-to-earth and people like you because you are so straightforward. You are an efficient problem solver because you will listen to both sides of an argument before making a decision that usually appeals to both parties.
The type of girlfriend/boyfriend you are looking for:

You like serious, smart and determined people. You don't judge a book by its cover, so good-looking people aren't necessarily your style. This makes you an attractive person in many people's eyes.
Your readiness to commit to a relationship:

You are ready to commit as soon as you meet the right person. And you believe you will pretty much know as soon as you might that person.
The seriousness of your love:

Your have very sensible tactics when approaching the opposite sex. In many ways people find your straightforwardness attractive, so you will find yourself with plenty of dates.
Your views on education

You may not like to study but you have many practical ideas. You listen to your own instincts and tend to follow your heart, so you will probably end up with an unusual job.
The right job for you:

You're a practical person and will choose a secure job with a steady income. Knowing what you like to do is important. Find a regular job doing just that and you'll be set for life.
How do you view success:

You are afraid of failure and scared to have a go at the career you would like to have in case you don't succeed. Don't give up when you haven't yet even started! Be courageous.
What are you most afraid of:

You are afraid of having no one to rely on in times of trouble. You don't ever want to be unable to take care of yourself. Independence is important to you.
Who is your true self:

You are mature, reasonable, honest and give good advice. People ask for your comments on all sorts of different issues. Sometimes you might find yourself in a dilemma when trapped with a problem, which your heart rather than your head needs to solve.